Love. A simple notion and simple emotion that has been twisted into being a complex idea. what is love? how to love? whom to love? The capitalists make money out of it. boom!! bestseller.. best film of the year perhaps the century, and the great philospher were or are born out of it. yet, less and less people enjoy the company of love, and some.. even lost in its translation. The 'complexity' of love continues to evolve thru decades, new theories rises from the definition.
As Coelho said, 'love simply is'. The problem with us, human, we tend to believe that everything needs to be defined including LOVE. We rather recognized definition given than believing that we are born with it. even if we are aware this gift of God, we feel that we need a kind of mechanism to let it grow inside us. why? simply because throughout generations we are taught that life has certain rules and in order to be seen a complete 'civilized' creature we need to follow this rules.. and in order to fit in, we need to agree with the social definition.
Love lies independently. free from any definition. It evolves, changes form and transforms just like us; we are made of energy. love is a form of energy. Let it runs by itself and you will see the other beautiful infinite side of life.
I may not be a doctor love but it is clear to me that loving someone is the second step in the process of life. To love someone is to be able to separate ourselves from the other person. "You complete me" or "you are part of me" is totally an absurd idea! We are not part of them and they are not part of us. We are born complete with all sets of emotions. When love strikes, it is these separate entity that works together in harmonizing the nature. connection of self and the surrounding... the nature and the universe is what love is all about. we're after all the constituent of the universe.
The 'complexity' of love rises when we dwell too much into the other entity and lose ourselves completely in it. then comes the notion "i'm lost without you..". the world falls apart and one entity paralyze. as a result.. Love is nothing but time dragging and pain.
Let the love flows in us and it will keep flowing no matter under what circumstances we might be in. Love is not to be defined but to be felt.. because love is ... free
Lauri Markkanen
3 years ago
2 comments:
Yes love needs not definition. Love simply is. However if I were force to came out with my definition of love, then I would say, love is you.
Love is not complex at all, people make it complex. In fact love is the most easiest concept in the world as it is the most oldest concept.
yeap.. and I luv u too J.
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